Purpose of Life

Ever wonder... why are we here for? who decide the friends around us? Out of the universe why there is a difference in country, and why do people born only at that country.. i have too many doubts on god... though i'm not a believer, but i believe in its theory.. where it really teaches you how to deals with life and people.. however.. there are still statements which i dun really agree on... perhaps its because god meant the other way but the people interpreted it wrongly... as time goes by, the true meaning of the statement lost its way...

there is this statement which i really like...
"if you want your life to have impact, focus it! Stop dabbing. stop trying to do it all. do less. prune away even good activities and do only that which matters most. Never confuse activity with productivity. You can be busy without a purpose, but what's the point? "

Most of the time, it does helps you get better when you throw away those thing that you don't really need it. Do what you should instead.. So that you can "Focus" on lesser stuff and creating a greater success..

Life though is short term, but its enough to do all the things we need and some extra time to do the things you want. as long as you plan and figure what's more important..

But why are we here on earth for... Many are searching for the answer.. was it because of what we did in the past? here for suffering, helping others or to have a better future.. i can't think of others...

Anyway.. what i am trying to say here is that... we will alway find this statement familiar... "even before we are born, god has plan everything for us". I dunnoe how true is this... but it definitely explained why people behave this way and why we are being in a different status and many many others things...

Often i ask myself, so... if god really plan everything for us. how does he really judge what kind of life you should take... again.. it came back to.. does he judge base on what we had done before.. so even after our death.. he accumulate the good and bad deeds... we will be sent to hell or heaven.. so what if we go to heaven.. and what if we go to hell.. do we come back to earth again..

So.. god created adam and eve... how did two people produced millions of people.. in that case.. all of us are related to each other?

Actually i really think that i've learnt alot from all sort of religion, they teaches good things, that help me overcome many problems with people... though i am not a believer in god, their purpose is the same, for the good sake of human beings..
frankly speaking.. i am not a religion bais person.. what i feel is that they are all the same.. all of them are for the good of people.. but why do we alway have to differentiate ourselves?



From all these that i know, learning to forgive one is very important and it is very difficult... how many time or how long in your life you will meet the same person again... i think it will be less den five time that you will be able to work with the same person, or be with your friends... and it's definitely a few years long for a friends to stay very close together... why not try to forgive that person and move on... there is actually no point holding on to it as life is short... you don't forgive now.. you might never have a chance to forgive again.. as it will be too late.. by that time you might be thinking of regreting not being able to forgive...
When i have came to realise about forgiving and being able to do that.. i cherish my friends alot more... How long can a friendship last.. you will never know... it is something which you cannot control... so let go of the unwanted, and bring in the needs..

I wanted myself to be able to understand and does the right thing at the right time... Attaining to be a person with great personality... Till now.. i still don't understand why people with very bad personality exist.. I am still unsure of my personality.. i think i am not that great yet.. no one is perfect.. there's a person i really hold high respect of regarding this...


Today went to library to borrow a book...
"The Purpose of Driven Life"

It's really interesting... i really like it.. hehe..


I am still wondering... if god really plan our life for us... den.. all the things has been predicted such as not going for lesson, and so on.. so do we still just follow..

God is testing us..

When god is testing us, he gave us endurance as well...